Authentic Connection: Meaningful Endings Inward-Outward Activity

A strong closing has two phases, corresponding to two distinct needs among your guests: looking inward and turning outward. Looking inward is about taking a moment to understand, remember, acknowledge, and reflect on what just transpired – and to bond as a group one last time. Turning outward is about preparing to part from one another and retake your place in the work.

– Priya Parker


While individual thinking and processing time should be afforded, this activity should ultimately be completed as a group.

These are just a few example reflection questions we’ve used to get you started. Please feel free to personalize your closing experiences based on the specific gathering’s purpose and participants.

LOOKING INWARD: Meaning-Making and Connecting One Last Time

  • What is something you have contributed to the group and/or a moment from our time together that will make our work better this year?
  • Reflect on your thinking, learning, and work today. What were you most proud of?
  • What lessons were learned from failure today?
  • What made you curious today?
  • What transpired here and why does it matter?

TURNING OUTWARD: Separation and Reentry

  • What is something you are taking with you from our time together that will enhance your work in the coming year?
  • Where did you meet success, and who might benefit most from what you’ve learned along the way? How can you share this with them?
  • What of this experience do I want to take with me or share with other parts of my life?
  • How does this experience make sense in or fit into my life outside of this specific experience?

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